【转载】我很重要-毕淑敏

转载毕淑敏的《我很重要》,我想说的是,用别人的立场代表自己的立场,用别人的态度代替自己的态度,不论这个别人是一个人、一群人、还是一个虚幻的偶像,都是不应该的。人可以猜测揣摩别人的想法,用做参考,而绝不应当用别人代替自己。这不仅是对自己力量与责任放弃,以此来干涉他人也越出了自己的权利。

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【原创】Talk about feedback

Feedback is one of the necessary condition for people to take his  responsibility.
When you grow up and you have the freedom to decide your dress, a mirror can help you to dress well, because it give  you the feedback of your appearance.
Study is a thing that need people to be responsible for himself, so we need feedback. An accurately, completely, timely feed back will be more helpful.
Examination is a tool that can give feedback of your study, but only provide the mark of your paper is not enough generally. It depend on the difficulty of the examination and the
knowledge of people.
A speedy calculation exercise may not need answer, because we can get necessary  feedback by check it  carefully when we finish. But a piece of answer and a stopwatch can give you more accurately , completely and timely feedback, and will be more helpful.
But that is quite special. generally, even for skilled people, to take an effective  study, an accurately and timely answer is needed.  And for unskilled people ,they need more  completely explanation to give them feedback.
Learn for practice, because we can get feedback through practice, when we learn to program, an compiler may give us good feedback, though it maybe not enough sometimes, so we need C Primer Plus and Google.
Some kind of feedback can only be given by people, a “positive” person who always say “that’s  good ” , and a “strict” person who always say “you may take more effort”, they can’s give good feedback to community.
If we want to learn “How to be a man ” in the society, we mean that the society always give us accurately, completely and timely feedback, but  it can’t sometimes.
No feedback, no one can take responsibility, so if you think a responsible people is good , you should give good feedback to the others. we all live in the society and we all have some responsibility to make it better.

【转载】世纪霸主希特勒

一个民族到底要在精神上沦落到何种程度,才能在这个无赖身上看出一个领袖的模子,看到令人追随的人格魅力?

——卡尔·冯·奥西茨基

最近看了《帝国的毁灭》这个电影,感到要抵御这种毁灭世界的人格魅力,就必须找到可以替代它的力量,所幸世界已经存在这种力量,只是我们尚需努力,否则你要如何去回答下面这篇文章呢?

Adolf Hitler

Adolf Hitler

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【原创】青蛙白兔的决裂

青蛙白兔聊合群之后,又过了许多时间,他们的友谊终于到了不得不决裂的那天。

anonymous:人们观点不同,个性也各有区别,我们不应当因此对别人怀有偏见;但是,如果别人犯下错误,我们仍然应当去告诉他。

青蛙:从字面意思上,我同意你说的话;但你我都应当清楚,我们对个性差别与错误的定义有很大的区别;简单的说,我认为善恶评判是由内在的人性作为标准,如果所在群体的文化与此对立,那么文化则成为一种偏见;而你认为善恶评判是由外在的群体所决定的,内在的人性对你来讲即使存在,也是无关紧要的。 Continue reading

【原创】日记

1、性格决定命运——卡尔.荣格
种族、肤色、性别、语言、宗教、政治或其他见解、国籍或社会出身、财产、出生并不能决定一个人的命运;性格决定命运,这句话打破了上诉偏见,但如果停留在此,便会麻痹人的思想,让人变得更加狭隘。
一个奋发向上,坚定不移的男子让人钦佩,一个善解人意,温柔乐观的女子惹人喜爱;但如果因此而认为这样的男子即使危害他人也是有魅力,这样的女子即使欺骗别人也是纯洁的话,那必然是极大的荒谬!
2、矛盾源于沟通不当——现代管理学
沟通即用恰当的方式还原事实,在职场中,因为通常认为大家有着共同的目标,而组织的庞大又给信息流通造成不少障碍,所以我们十分强调沟通的重要性。
但是并非一切矛盾都源于沟通,如果大家没有共同的目标,甚至目标相悖。即使互相了解,互相理解,矛盾仍然无法消除,也不应该就此得到消除。
因此,当你发现这一点时,与其把继续把精力浪费在沟通上,还不如投向更有意义的事情。